Someone trying to tell us something...or coincidence?

okay, this is sort of a serious question, and sort of just up for grabs...meaning, just looking to see how others would take this. My brother is in the military, and stationed in Iraq, He left on Dec 24th. and came home for R&R (rest and relaxation) in April for 18 days. on May 10th our father died (the exact day his father died 20 years before) so my brother came home for bereavement, the military sent him to Ga because thats where his home is listed, however, our father lives in New Jersey (we don't, or at least, didn't speak with him, nor his side of the family for 15 years) anyway, with the funeral being in New Jersey, but the military only able to send my brother to Ga, neither of us went to the funeral, well, as it turns out, our father left us the executor of the will, which we didn't find out about until may 28th (remember, my brother was suppose to leave back to iraq on jun 1st) so he got an extension until the 14th, so he goes to the airport, and it turns out, his flight is